I had really been the driving force behind wanting to adopt, with Richy waiting for some kind of angelic visitation or divine revelation. Lucky for me, there’s a lot of divine revelation in the Bible about adoption. We filled out our pre-application in February, and were finished with the paperwork and the homestudy process by late May. Now, we wait.
I am going to talk about the practicals of adoption in upcoming posts- today, I’m just going to give a quick run-through of some adoption basics.
Adoption is confusing to a lot of people. It’s intimidating, the time, the paperwork, the money and the fear of not loving a non-biological child. Oh, and the concern that you may be adopting a hell-spawn that will terrorize you and end up having glowing red eyes and kill your pets.
And why does it cost so much? How could anyone ever adopt when figures are being thrown around are $20,000 to $40,000? Should people adopt when they can’t “afford” to pay for a baby? Why should you contribute to someone else’s adoption?
The overarching questions are, why adopt? Who should adopt? Who should not adopt? What is our Biblical responsibility toward orphans?